what is it with people these days???

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Found 28th Oct 2008
seems to me nobody knows how to be faithful these days!!!

my friend ha been with her bloke for bout 18months and he's cheated on her already, he only kissed someone but thats still cheating, they got an 11week old baby together too.

plus my other friend found out her oother half been trying to get on his ex, theyve been together less than two years, have a year old together.

i just dont understand it, if u love someone why would you want anyone else. i wouldnt even consider another man and i know my other half wouldnt do it to me either. but just seems that this is the norm these days. one cheats, the other forgives, maybe even does it back for revenge.

does no one have any morals anymore???

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i dont consider it either, i agree.... but some people are diff.. cant say why, its all just sigh

i have morals.. but they are loosening :lol:
i jest!

nope.......my mate married her bloke in July and they've been together 8 yrs, his kid from his first relationship told my mate that dad has been cheating on her with mummy (which her bloke didnt deny).....why the f did he marry her ?

she's heartbroken

in a word, no

Cheating is for fools

the last 3 women iv had a relationship with have done the dirty:x thats why iv been single for a while

its so sad. Friends sister has just found out her hubs has been having affair with younger woman. Throwing away there marriage of 30yrs.
Sad very sad.

i do 12 years wed no affairs

pcnutta;3310748

its so sad. Friends sister has just found out her hubs has been having … its so sad. Friends sister has just found out her hubs has been having affair with younger woman. Throwing away there marriage of 30yrs. Sad very sad.

very sad that

Original Poster

raptorcigs;3310758

i do 12 years wed no affairs



well done you. thats the sad state of it though, we congratulate people for doing what should be the norm. its just so sad.

im so angry at these men hurting my friends.:x and i found myself saying to my other half "i do love you" as if he is special for not being like them, how ridiculous. :oops:

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mr miagi;3310765

very sad that



its more than sad, its rediculous, i just dont understand it, at all

mummyspam1985;3310796

im so angry at these men hurting my friends.:x and i found myself saying … im so angry at these men hurting my friends.:x and i found myself saying to my other half "i do love you" as if he is special for not being like them, how ridiculous. :oops:



dont forget women do it too.. i cant name names, but some people i know!.. shocking.

it is, its torn the family apart. i really cant understand, and i never will.

MissRoo;3310816

dont forget women do it too.. i cant name names, but some people i … dont forget women do it too.. i cant name names, but some people i know!.. shocking.

exactly i find it hard trusting women. i know all women are not like that i suppose its just me being daft

mr miagi;3310842

exactly i find it hard trusting women. i know all women are not like that … exactly i find it hard trusting women. i know all women are not like that i suppose its just me being daft



aye, i suppose once youve been hurt or somethings happend in life your always more warey. But like you said, not all men and women are the same..for anything

Original Poster

oh yeah women do it too. thats my point though, NO ONE seems to have standards.

ive left boyfriends for other people when i was younger and thats bad enough but these people claim to love them still, and its just a mistake, its no mistake, you know aht your doing and you cant love someone if your gonna do that.

ive never been a cheater but been cheated on.

would anybody give chances??

ive always said you do anything and your off!!

pcnutta;3310861

ive never been a cheater but been cheated on.

same here

Banned

Society is beginning to accept is as normality through the burst of media attention portraying it to be ... desperate housewives, sex in the city, i sleep with strangers ... you name it ! Blame the TV ... people don't think twice when an opportunity presents itself as they belive everyone else does it.

pcnutta;3310861

ive never been a cheater but been cheated on.



right with you there!!:x

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foxymissroxy;3310862

would anybody give chances??ive always said you do anything and your off!!



no way. under no circumstances. but i know my other half would never do that to me. i dont know why i know, i just do. we been through a lot and he's lied bout stuff but for some reason that is one thinkg i would never doubt of him

i fell out with my best friend because she went back with her partner after he had an affair and had been visiting hookers,when she left him we helped her find somewhere to live,had her round every day,got her a job and she took him back after about 6 months they split up again but we will never be friends because she was not calling me or visitin because she was back with him and i only found out because i went to meet her from work and so had he

I was an absolute idiot, and forgave another hukd member 3 times, just decided enough is enough and I am moving out, he cheated on me 3 times over the years........ i am an absolute idiot...... wont be anymore

Kitten13;3310994

I was an absolute idiot, and forgave another hukd member 3 times, just … I was an absolute idiot, and forgave another hukd member 3 times, just decided enough is enough and I am moving out, he cheated on me 3 times over the years........ i am an absolute idiot...... wont be anymore

good on yea:thumbsup:

Kitten13;3310994

I was an absolute idiot, and forgave another hukd member 3 times, just … I was an absolute idiot, and forgave another hukd member 3 times, just decided enough is enough and I am moving out, he cheated on me 3 times over the years........ i am an absolute idiot...... wont be anymore



top girl :thumbsup:

Kitten13;3310994

I was an absolute idiot, and forgave another hukd member 3 times, just … I was an absolute idiot, and forgave another hukd member 3 times, just decided enough is enough and I am moving out, he cheated on me 3 times over the years........ i am an absolute idiot...... wont be anymore



:?

good for you!!! Keep strong and you will be ok

iv never understood it .. why not just ditch the one your with first ? ... i hate cheats and liars .. come accross a fair few since i got divorced and internet dating seems to have made matters worse as far as im concerned .. its too easy to cheat these days :roll:

nicki3668;3311042

iv never understood it .. why not just ditch the one your with first ? … iv never understood it .. why not just ditch the one your with first ? ... i hate cheats and liars .. come accross a fair few since i got divorced and internet dating seems to have made matters worse as far as im concerned .. its too easy to cheat these days :roll:



indeed it has :? for both sexes

i have had 2 serious realtionships prior to the one im in now both times i was cheated on and lied too, but as soon as i found out, well lets just say they got theirs as i dont think i can repeat what i done on here (leaves thread with an evil laugh mwah ha ha ha ha ha)

its better to dump the person you're with instead of cheating on them
my friend's bf of 2 years cheated on her, he confessed 8 months later and she forgave him, they're still together....i woudnt forgive a guy that cheated on me...EVER!

I can never 100% trust anyone . It's a shame they had kids so soon in the relationship.

Cheating is for losers, and if i had a mate doing it, they would no longer be a mate

kissing aint cheating :roll: .... unless it's on ya batch



Lulu'sMammy;3311641

Cheating is for losers, and if i had a mate doing it, they would no … Cheating is for losers, and if i had a mate doing it, they would no longer be a mate




.........better behave then :whistling:

owlass;3312110

kissing aint cheating :roll: .... unless it's on ya batch.........better … kissing aint cheating :roll: .... unless it's on ya batch.........better behave then :whistling:


yes you better!

Kitten13;3310994

I was an absolute idiot, and forgave another hukd member 3 times, just … I was an absolute idiot, and forgave another hukd member 3 times, just decided enough is enough and I am moving out, he cheated on me 3 times over the years........ i am an absolute idiot...... wont be anymore


Sorry to hear this kitten, you two always seemed so together with the banter. Good (and much better) luck for the future.

As to why people cheat, lie and do stupid things that thave been described here, I have no idea, but a combination of being gutless, dishonest, self-indulgent and immature springs to mind.

I've never cheated. Oh and i've got no morals either.
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