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    in their 30's & childless?

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    Original Poster Banned

    I am and I feel like I am the only one!

    Banned

    Jennifer Aniston?



    no..wait...she just turned 40...

    I can help:p

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    Spriggan;5063171

    I can help:p



    Are you in your 30's & childless?

    Kyle...... 40's too.

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    Shambolic;5063180

    Kyle...... 40's too.



    Who?

    And little old me:oops:

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    tigerallstars;5063204

    And little old me:oops:



    Can I ask why you have none?

    kylie

    http://pub.tv2.no/multimedia/na/archive/00589/Kyle_Minogue_Kylie__589938s.jpg
    DLM;5063186

    Who?



    Kylie, sorry I missed out the i earlier :oops:

    Not 30s but early 40s - been married 18 years and just "never got round to it" as they say!!!

    DLM;5063158

    I am and I feel like I am the only one!


    are you unhappy about this ??

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    scotsann;5063226

    Not 30s but early 40s - been married 18 years and just "never got round … Not 30s but early 40s - been married 18 years and just "never got round to it" as they say!!!



    There's alway's a reason for me not to, no money etc...

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    flowers172;5063238

    are you unhappy about this ??



    I have just started working in a school.

    Also a lot of people around me have little one's.

    I just feel weird when I say I have none.

    DLM;5063252

    I have just started working in a school.Also a lot of people around me … I have just started working in a school.Also a lot of people around me have little one's.I just feel weird when I say I have none.


    Its not weird, anyway you don't realise how easy your life is to do things without kids until you have them, then everything changes so much. You still have time yet anyway if you decide to have them.

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    flowers172;5063309

    Its not weird, anyway you don't realise how easy your life is to do … Its not weird, anyway you don't realise how easy your life is to do things without kids until you have them, then everything changes so much. You still have time yet anyway if you decide to have them.



    Thanks, I am just so paranoid what people think of me in my new job I suppose.

    DLM;5063339

    Thanks, I am just so paranoid what people think of me in my new job I … Thanks, I am just so paranoid what people think of me in my new job I suppose.



    Don't worry what people think.... I am the opposite I suppose, I had my 1st at 19 (at the time I worked in a secondary school) it didnt go down too well, with me being young, and students only a few years younger, I was told I was setting a bad example :roll:

    Lots of people I know and I have worked with, have no children in 30's & 40's, everyone has different ways of life and different circumstances... if your happy dont let it get you down. :thumbsup:

    DLM;5063339

    Thanks, I am just so paranoid what people think of me in my new job I … Thanks, I am just so paranoid what people think of me in my new job I suppose.



    Sweetie don't worry about what others are thinking about you. Most people are too busy being self-obsessed to worry about anyone else. If people ask if you have kiddies just say " not yet! " and don't feel apologetic about it, it's a personal choice x x x

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    4lyons09;5063384

    Don't worry what people think.... I am the opposite I suppose, I had my … Don't worry what people think.... I am the opposite I suppose, I had my 1st at 19 (at the time I worked in a secondary school) it didnt go down too well, with me being young, and students only a few years younger, I was told I was setting a bad example :roll:Lots of people I know and I have worked with, have no children in 30's & 40's, everyone has different ways of life and different circumstances... if your happy dont let it get you down. :thumbsup:



    Thank you, I hope you are happy & well in your life x x

    Just laugh at them when they are struggling to get a babysitter for the weekend while you are free to party!!!

    ;-)

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    ClarityofMind;5063407

    Sweetie don't worry about what others are thinking about you. Most people … Sweetie don't worry about what others are thinking about you. Most people are too busy being self-obsessed to worry about anyone else. If people ask if you have kiddies just say " not yet! " and don't feel apologetic about it, it's a personal choice x x x



    Aw, how are you?

    I know I am being soft, I think I have just had so many problem's at other workplace's.

    I just want to fit in x x

    4lyons09;5063384

    Don't worry what people think.... I am the opposite I suppose, I had my … Don't worry what people think.... I am the opposite I suppose, I had my 1st at 19 (at the time I worked in a secondary school) it didnt go down too well, with me being young, and students only a few years younger, I was told I was setting a bad example :roll:Lots of people I know and I have worked with, have no children in 30's & 40's, everyone has different ways of life and different circumstances... if your happy dont let it get you down. :thumbsup:



    I had my first very young too, I was still at school and heard all that crap too about setting a bad example to other girls. Pooh. Let everyone make their own decisions about the world.

    I explain to my daughter now.. being a Mum is not a job it's an identity, it is who I am first and foremost and this is why she is truly the centre of my world.. she and her siblings give my life meaning.

    I think its a personal choice if you choose to have kids or not and when and if you choose to do so is up to you, nobody else's opinion ( except their fathers or prospective fathers ) means a damn thing. x x x

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    modoc;5063435

    Just laugh at them when they are struggling to get a babysitter for the … Just laugh at them when they are struggling to get a babysitter for the weekend while you are free to party!!!;-)



    Do you have any children?

    I know what you mean, I don't party anymore though, maybe I need a child to fill my life x x

    DLM;5063451

    Do you have any children?I know what you mean, I don't party anymore … Do you have any children?I know what you mean, I don't party anymore though, maybe I need a child to fill my life x x



    Yeah I have a son aged 11. Seriously don't be in a hurry to have kids just because others make you feel that way. Take your time and only you yourself will know when you are ready.

    ClarityofMind;5063441

    I had my first very young too, I was still at school and heard all that … I had my first very young too, I was still at school and heard all that crap too about setting a bad example to other girls. Pooh. Let everyone make their own decisions about the world. I explain to my daughter now.. being a Mum is not a job it's an identity, it is who I am first and foremost and this is why she is truly the centre of my world.. she and her siblings give my life meaning. I think its a personal choice if you choose to have kids or not and when and if you choose to do so is up to you, nobody else's opinion ( except their fathers or prospective fathers ) means a damn thing. x x x



    Thats really lovely and true!! :thumbsup:

    DLM;5063437

    Aw, how are you?I know I am being soft, I think I have just had so many … Aw, how are you?I know I am being soft, I think I have just had so many problem's at other workplace's.I just want to fit in x x



    I'm fine sweetie.. how are you finding the jobin general ?.. this is still your "settling in period" at the moment, so don't be too hard on yourself x x

    modoc;5063467

    Yeah I have a son aged 11. Seriously don't be in a hurry to have kids … Yeah I have a son aged 11. Seriously don't be in a hurry to have kids just because others make you feel that way. Take your time and only you yourself will know when you are ready.




    I agree, my first was unplanned I was 19 and I found it so hard, my 2nd was planned and everything was just perfect!

    You will know if or when you are ready

    Don't worry, chin up :friends:

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    modoc;5063467

    Yeah I have a son aged 11. Seriously don't be in a hurry to have kids … Yeah I have a son aged 11. Seriously don't be in a hurry to have kids just because others make you feel that way. Take your time and only you yourself will know when you are ready.



    Thank you, I bet he is lovely x x

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    ClarityofMind;5063471

    I'm fine sweetie.. how are you finding the jobin general ?.. this is … I'm fine sweetie.. how are you finding the jobin general ?.. this is still your "settling in period" at the moment, so don't be too hard on yourself x x



    It's ok, quite busy.

    Lot's of washing up! x x

    DLM;5063451

    Do you have any children?I know what you mean, I don't party anymore … Do you have any children?I know what you mean, I don't party anymore though, maybe I need a child to fill my life x x




    There isn't any wrong or right when it comes down to whether to have children or not. If any of my friends said they were never going to have children, I wouldn't think any differently of them. Some people want children at some point in their life, when they are ready, and others just don't want them, for whatever reason.

    If you're happy with your bloke and you have a secure home and can seriously imagine yourself having a child to look after, then maybe it would be time to think about it more seriously. But if you're not ready, then it doesn't make you weird or any less of a person than Joe Bloggs with 4 kids :thumbsup:

    DLM;5063518

    Thank you, I bet he is lovely x x



    Yeah he gets it from me. :-D

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    Charlie&Lola;5063553

    There isn't any wrong or right when it comes down to whether to have … There isn't any wrong or right when it comes down to whether to have children or not. If any of my friends said they were never going to have children, I wouldn't think any differently of them. Some people want children at some point in their life, when they are ready, and others just don't want them, for whatever reason.If you're happy with your bloke and you have a secure home and can seriously imagine yourself having a child to look after, then maybe it would be time to think about it more seriously. But if you're not ready, then it doesn't make you weird or any less of a person than Joe Bloggs with 4 kids :thumbsup:



    Thank you darling, I do have a wonderful man and a home.

    I just alway's find a reason not to have a baby x x

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    modoc;5063554

    Yeah he gets it from me. :-D



    He does x x

    DLM;5063583

    Thank you darling, I do have a wonderful man and a home.I just alway's … Thank you darling, I do have a wonderful man and a home.I just alway's find a reason not to have a baby x x



    I'd say then if you're always finding reasons, then maybe now isn't the right time for you. When/if you're ready, you'll just say ****** it to what reasons you're coming up with and have one anyway and find a way of working through/around your reasons. Until then, enjoy having your tv CBeebies free :-D

    DLM;5063587

    He does x x



    Thanks :oops: :thumbsup:

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    Charlie&Lola;5063618

    I'd say then if you're always finding reasons, then maybe now isn't the … I'd say then if you're always finding reasons, then maybe now isn't the right time for you. When/if you're ready, you'll just say ****** it to what reasons you're coming up with and have one anyway and find a way of working through/around your reasons. Until then, enjoy having your tv CBeebies free :-D



    Thank you honey.

    I just want the best for my children, I want everything to be just right x x

    I'm 28, and really want to have babies (not physically). I'm now at the stage Charlie&Lola talk of

    Yes I'm in my 30's just and have no children and no prospect of one in the near future. All the things like work pubing and clubbing were done in my 20's so never got to it. I do think about it sometimes that I may end up leaving it too late. Had a few silly one night stands in the past but seem to have been lucky or maybe my swimmers don't work who knows.

    i am:roll:

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    GAVINLEWISHUKD;5063838

    Yes I'm in my 30's just and have no children and no prospect of one in … Yes I'm in my 30's just and have no children and no prospect of one in the near future. All the things like work pubing and clubbing were done in my 20's so never got to it. I do think about it sometimes that I may end up leaving it too late. Had a few silly one night stands in the past but seem to have been lucky or maybe my swimmers don't work who knows.



    Same here, I have alway's worked full time until a few year's ago.
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