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Why do guys offer to be the shoulder to cry on?

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Found 27th Jan 2013
Why do guys offer to be a shoulder to cry on for a girl?

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to get in their pants
to have sex with them, obviously.

inb4 op needed a shoulder to cry on
Edited by: "DestinyCalls815" 27th Jan 2013
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The slim chance of sex in 99.9% of cases, we men are pathetic creatures.
Him: "I would never do that to you"
Her: "You wouldn't?"
Him: "nope"


#RandomNumber minutes later
Him: "Ooops I did it again......"

Edited by: "5nowman" 27th Jan 2013
Because their boyfriends don't listen and have small willies
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Because they are hoping to be rewarded with sex

Edited by: "miss_piggy" 27th Jan 2013
God only knows.......But if you're upset,I'm here for you.....
miss_piggy

Because their* hoping to be rewarded with sex



*they're

that's why women were told not to contribute!
Because we're all great listeners who give amazing advice in even the hardest situation... For a favour return of course.
Tears make great lube!
Ego boost as well
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magicbeans

*they'rethat's why women were told not to contribute!



Thank you so much for correcting my mistake. Moron (_;)
miss_piggy

Thank you so much for correcting my mistake. Moron (_;)


Awe wanna cry on my shoulder?
Why not? It doesn't always have to be about sex.

Or are you not getting any & you got friendzoned?

OP is beta.
Odds on the shoulder is needed to bitch about a bloke.
The advantage there is you don't have an other lassie chipping in with her own tough love experience.

Instead the guy offering the shoulder can show he's the top dog and solve your woes and then expect repayment.
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SEX, the end
Honestly depends on the personality of the guy.

As the previous comments above have stated, sometimes there are ulterior motives but it depends on your circumstances and the guy.

Not all guys want to get into the girls pants, some may have a happy relationship with their partner and merely just trying to help.
Sometimes guys can offer a different perspective on a situation that a girlfriend may not.
Some guys like to feel needed and it gives us a ego boost to be the knight in shining armor.
If you are close friends, some guys may also feel protective of you.

Some guys are genuine, some are not. Trust your instincts.
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Not all guys want to get into the girls pants



Yes, a few gays around, not a problem with that
Edited by: "squillion" 27th Jan 2013
Terracore

Honestly depends on the personality of the guy.As the previous comments … Honestly depends on the personality of the guy.As the previous comments above have stated, sometimes there are ulterior motives but it depends on your circumstances and the guy.Not all guys want to get into the girls pants, some may have a happy relationship with their partner and merely just trying to help.Sometimes guys can offer a different perspective on a situation that a girlfriend may not.Some guys like to feel needed and it gives us a ego boost to be the knight in shining armor.If you are close friends, some guys may also feel protective of you.Some guys are genuine, some are not. Trust your instincts.



All false, we only do it for a chance for sex.
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Ask Casparwhite
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OTOH why do girls look for a shoulder?

Experience tells me they are desperate for a ****.
baddev88

All false, we only do it for a chance for sex.



Thats a matter of opinion lol
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Sex. That's all.
You do realise his wife or girlfriend has been offered a shoulder to cry on and he's proving his point.
Because the good guys are always there to pick up the pieces in the slim hopes that the girl will notice what a great guy they are and how they should give them a chance and date them instead, not just going for the idiots who are going to break their hearts all the time
To get her in bed.
Some people on here have said it depends on the guy's personality?
But in all honesty, it depends on the girl what how the guy see's her.. believe it or not, guys can also put girls into the 'friendzone' and may simply want to comfort their friend, whereas if it was a different girl, the same guy may want to get her into bed as other's have stated..
To get laid or make them as your own gf obviously.
Men only offer a shoulder to cry on because what he really wants woman to lie on.
Guessing the OP got his/her end away then?

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