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    Would this actually work?

    I was just told this about an hour ago.

    Let's say a guy meets a new girl and is interested in this girl but he's not sure if the girl is interested in him.
    Apparently one way to find out if the girl is interested is...

    Next time you (the guy) are with her, get close and lean forward as if you're going to kiss or hug the girl but at the last moment move your hand to her hair/ear and pull out some fluff saying "you've got fluff in your hair".

    The point of doing this is that if the girl leans back or moves away that she's probably not interested.
    If she leans forward then she probably is interested.
    If she doesn't do anything then you're still at square one.

    It sounds pretty pathetic to me but I thought I would ask for a girls opinion first.
    So girls, how would you react if a guy you're interest in but you've only recently met leaned towards you as if he was about to kiss/hug you?

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    If I thought you were going to kiss me and leaned forward because I was interested, and you then did the "fluff" thing, then I would feel really stupid and humiliated and would probably not want to see you again, so probably not a great idea - or is this just me? What is it with men, if you want to know if a girl is interested, just flipping well ask her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Move towards her and if she starts to move away,headbutt her for not being interested.

    have to agree with Annie

    I did that the other day to a guy but I didn't have a bit of fluff handy, only a chip. He leaned forward and ate it the greedy barstool!! :x

    defo true annie.,...would cement his non intrest if he pulled fluff...plus pulling fluff from ur ear is humiliating! hehe

    DerryBhoy;4004843

    Move towards her and if she starts to move away,headbutt her for not … Move towards her and if she starts to move away,headbutt her for not being interested.



    I spat out my coke... :w00t:

    Banned

    It would probably work if you were 12.

    And were drunk on cider.

    This makes me laugh because I did the exact thing without meaning to do so.
    My friend had some new flavoured lip gloss or something and said it smelt nice, so after she put it on i went to smell it, off her lips lol (we were in a club and alcohol had been involved)
    And when I went to smell it she puckered up and ended up kissing me on my nose lol
    I seriously had no intention of pulling said move stated in the original post!
    Makes me laugh lol

    Heres A Good One Just Ask Like This

    Tinkerbell28 I Realy Would Like To Kiss You,may I Please?

    if you are 1 of the brat pack in an 80s film yes! real life present day just kiss her ffs

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    Annie1508;4004825

    If I thought you were going to kiss me and leaned forward because I was … If I thought you were going to kiss me and leaned forward because I was interested, and you then did the "fluff" thing, then I would feel really stupid and humiliated and would probably not want to see you again, so probably not a great idea - or is this just me? What is it with men, if you want to know if a girl is interested, just flipping well ask her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



    Haha, I'm not asking for advice. Just wanted to know if it would actually work.

    But the reason a guy won't ask a girl if shes interested is if it's too early they don't want to make it look as if they're rushing things. Otherwise if the girl says no they'll be ones feeling eally stupid and humiliated. :thumbsup:
    But once the guy gets to know the girl well enough then you're right, he should just ask.

    dmissy13;4004895

    if you are 1 of the brat pack in an 80s film yes! real life present day … if you are 1 of the brat pack in an 80s film yes! real life present day just kiss her ffs



    and if she lumps you one after ... then you'll know she doesnt want to take it any further :thumbsup:

    You Might Want To Lube Your Face So As Her Hand Slides Off Easier When She Wollops You Lol

    Original Poster

    Im actually suprised that it works, would of expected all of you to laugh and say no

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    cassieismydoggie;4004922

    and if she lumps you one after ... then you'll know she doesnt want to … and if she lumps you one after ... then you'll know she doesnt want to take it any further :thumbsup:



    lol, i thought you had to run off somewhere?

    DerryBhoy;4004843

    Move towards her and if she starts to move away,headbutt her for not … Move towards her and if she starts to move away,headbutt her for not being interested.




    LMAO!!! nearly fell off the chair laughing :thumbsup:

    King of Thieves;4004950

    lol, i thought you had to run off somewhere?



    I do, but was waiting for you to get this flippin piece of fluff out of my hair :whistling:

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    cassieismydoggie;4004973

    I do, but was waiting for you to get this flippin piece of fluff out of … I do, but was waiting for you to get this flippin piece of fluff out of my hair :whistling:



    Sorry, im leaning back. faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrr back.







    King of Thieves;4005019

    Sorry, im leaning back. faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrr back.:p



    Good job too, I had my fist ready :w00t:
    (laters buddy )

    Just put your hand down her pants and see if she slaps you:-D

    Train Driver;4005131

    Just put your hand down her pants and see if she slaps you:-D



    if she slaps you with whats in her pants, run like f***!

    chrishill;4005154

    if she slaps you with whats in her pants, run like f***!



    You been to Thailand????:-D

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    cassieismydoggie;4005072

    Good job too, I had my fist ready :w00t:(laters buddy )



    :lol:
    Bye cassie x

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    tinkerbell28;4005092

    Lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Although don't think it will win her over ;-)See, … Lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Although don't think it will win her over ;-)See, that is sweet, that would work on me



    Sorry to dissapoint but rappy's married.
    Unless you have a thing for married a man :whistling: :whistling:

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    tinkerbell28;4005243

    LOL, yes being married myself I go to bed with one every night :w00t:



    And yet you still kiss men who ask you politely... Women, they're like a dagger straight through the heart :roll:

    DerryBhoy;4004843

    Move towards her and if she starts to move away,headbutt her for not … Move towards her and if she starts to move away,headbutt her for not being interested.



    :w00t::w00t: haha thats a good one:w00t::w00t::w00t::

    Tried indecent exposure and break down in tears?
    Said to work every time, but I haven't actually tried it.
    Post result here.

    Train Driver;4005166

    You been to Thailand????:-D


    ME LUB YOU LONG TIME LOL.
    PS.TINK,THANKYOU X

    I heard about a guy who asked a co-office worker for her advice on how to approach a girl he fancied in the office, but he was too shy.

    She said, "Just be natural. Next time you meet her, simply smile and say the first thing that comes into your head."

    Later, as he passed the Ladies, the object of his desire happened to come out.

    He beamed and said, "Hello - had a good crap?"

    what should i do, i reli fanci some girl bt i dno if she likes me I AM ONLY 13 so be nice :-D SO WHAT SHOULD I DO !!!

    wish guys would just ask........ffs, :roll:

    Obviously,'Fluff from ears' move is daft. It would get you a quick good-bye.:roll:
    Who told you it? Someone playing a prank?

    Just read the eye contact and body language and watch to see if she smoothes back her hair.:thumbsup: during conversation.
    I'm assuming this is for information only KoT:whistling:

    TD and Rappy - where do you get these thoughts from??

    "Sup botch... suk me root!" =D

    tinkerbell28;4010549

    Just ask her, if you think the feeling is mutual, just tell her. It's bad … Just ask her, if you think the feeling is mutual, just tell her. It's bad enough when you get older, let alone when your 13. Just ask hun, can't do anything more than that!



    the only thing is she goes to the same school, so i cba with every1 tlkin about it and the possiable bulling

    Oh bless, just ask her when it sthe two of us then if it goes round the school you know she aint worth it.

    quackstar84;4013549

    "Sup botch... suk me root!" =D



    ROFL - quackstars goin up the list of my must watch/trainwreck posters.

    Challenger to Scotland88's position.

    BlondeBella;4014238

    Oh bless, just ask her when it sthe two of us then if it goes round the … Oh bless, just ask her when it sthe two of us then if it goes round the school you know she aint worth it.



    Yh you right :oops: al see on monday

    DomWall;4014316

    Yh you right :oops: al see on monday



    Im sure it will be fine, if all else fails you can do what my OH did, he got drunk then asked me out :lol:

    lol not reli able on shandy

    robtallica;4014253

    ROFL - quackstars goin up the list of my must watch/trainwreck … ROFL - quackstars goin up the list of my must watch/trainwreck posters.Challenger to Scotland88's position.



    Rock'n roll MOFO :lol:
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