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    Just read this news story and thought that I dont think I would be that bothered if it happened to me, I thought a prison term seemed a bit punitive. What are your thoughts?

    news.bbc.co.uk/1/h…stm

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    "What you did represents a cruel, selfish betrayal of trust."
    Judge Roger Chapple

    Couldn't agree more, I would not want it done to me. If I was asked then undoubtedly I'll say yes...given I trust them (not to be put on the net!).

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    awoodhall2003;8023438

    "What you did represents a cruel, selfish betrayal of trust."Judge Roger … "What you did represents a cruel, selfish betrayal of trust."Judge Roger ChappleCouldn't agree more, I would not want it done to me. If I was asked then undoubtedly I'll say yes...given I trust them (not to be put on the net!).



    yeah but then they didnt go on the net or anything

    What you wouldn't be bothered if he had sex with you.........:whistling:


    Given recent stories grabbing the headlines 8 months prison seems a little harsh given the fact that he didn't use them for anything but his own use (allegedly)

    I can understand the women involved being upset, he should have told them about it no question. It's an invasion of privacy, but a jail term seems a bit much. Add to that he's on the register for 10 years, I think it's a bit ott....

    the filming was non consensual and therefore wrong-if both parties agree to the filming of a sex tape then no problem,but this was a violation of women and he deserves to go to jail imho.

    Banned

    IF he slept with me, i'd be VERY bothered

    I'd certainly be bothered if I thought someone had filmed me without my knowledge or consent.

    Original Poster

    Teragram;8023524

    I'd certainly be bothered if I thought someone had filmed me without my … I'd certainly be bothered if I thought someone had filmed me without my knowledge or consent.



    happens every day....big brother state:thumbsup:

    roryk83;8023453

    yeah but then they didnt go on the net or anything


    Doesnt matter personally its a breach of my rights.

    greg_68;8023461

    What you wouldn't be bothered if he had sex with … What you wouldn't be bothered if he had sex with you.........:whistling:Given recent stories grabbing the headlines 8 months prison seems a little harsh given the fact that he didn't use them for anything but his own use (allegedly)


    Of course not...try anything once :whistling::p

    Teragram;8023524

    I'd certainly be bothered if I thought someone had filmed me without my … I'd certainly be bothered if I thought someone had filmed me without my knowledge or consent.


    Exactly, doesnt matter if it was during sex, or other times.

    Banned

    i'm sure someone on this forum will do this.



















    Once he breaks his duck and loses his virginity in Ibiza.

    Banned

    Phew my collection is still safe. Though my missus thinks its a bit off watching her when she was 18. She's now 25

    Banned

    Prison seems very harsh.

    guv;8023586

    i'm sure someone on this forum will do this.Once he breaks his duck and … i'm sure someone on this forum will do this.Once he breaks his duck and loses his virginity in Ibiza.


    :whistling: Someones :santa: all in one!

    lumoruk;8023588

    Phew my collection is still safe. Though my missus thinks its a bit off … Phew my collection is still safe. Though my missus thinks its a bit off watching her when she was 18. She's now 25


    You don't tell her how sex she WAS do you?

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    guv;8023586

    i'm sure someone on this forum will do this.:giggle::giggle:Once he … i'm sure someone on this forum will do this.:giggle::giggle:Once he breaks his duck and loses his virginity in Ibiza.

    Banned

    His girlfriend is a bit of a bitch, you wouldn't want to see the father of your child get sent down for this and be put on the sex offenders list.

    Banned

    why didn't he just ask? so dumb shame on him

    So these films were from a few years ago, meaning since his girlfriend moved in with him he has stopped and put it all behind him, and were effectively only for his 'personal use', since he did not sell them, or upload them to the internet.

    Surely something along the lines of a fine, or community service would have been far more beneficial to society, rather than a prison sentence and having to be on the sex offenders register for 10 years

    After all, he would still be publicly humiliated, have lost his job, and his family, without the need for prison or the register.

    civms47;8023462

    I can understand the women involved being upset, he should have told them … I can understand the women involved being upset, he should have told them about it no question. It's an invasion of privacy, but a jail term seems a bit much. Add to that he's on the register for 10 years, I think it's a bit ott....

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    whatsThePoint;8024016

    because they say no ½ the time :oops:



    then just date twice as many girls. wtf secretly filming them in the toilet. that's some messed up ****

    Whilst it's not a nice thing he's done I think the sentence is way OTT personally.

    Banned

    He should have put a sign up saying CCTV was in operation in the building. This would have covered him!

    Prison should be kept for those that are a danger to society,they are too full as it is.

    Whilst I do not condone what he did,it's a bit creepy,I think the sentence is very harsh.

    As for being on the sex offenders register for 10 years,I am not really sure that it was meant to be clogged up with this kind of bloke.The authorities responsible for policing sex offenders probably have a hard enough job as it is!!

    Would I be bothered if it happened to me?

    If an ex of mine still gets his kicks from watching us ****.........at my age now I would probably be flattered!!:oops:

    Are you for real ?

    Having sex with an adult and filming it and having sex with a CHILD are two very different things.

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    What if you had a photographic memory and could remember every single ex you slept with and recall each session with dvd like clarity. This would clearly constitute an offence, remembering without consent!!

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    whatsThePoint;8024072

    i think he got off lightly considering that woman got 9 years for … i think he got off lightly considering that woman got 9 years for sleeping with a 13 y/o (most are trying to be dads by that age nowadays anyway)



    troll

    Brb;8024112

    Are you for real ? Having sex with an adult and filming it and having sex … Are you for real ? Having sex with an adult and filming it and having sex with a CHILD are two very different things.



    as above

    awoodhall2003;8023624

    You don't tell her how sex[y] she WAS do you?



    No, I tell her how sexy she is now, 10x as sexy because she is. Prefer size 14 to a 10 anyday :thumbsup:

    lumoruk;8024144

    trollas above



    Sorry, but why are you calling me a troll ?

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    Brb;8024183

    Sorry, but why are you calling me a troll ?



    I quoted the post you were referring to and calling them a troll and agreeing to what you said chill 8-)

    Brb;8024183

    Sorry, but why are you calling me a troll ?



    He was calling the other poster a troll and agreeing with your point.:)

    if a girl did it to me id say

    "wtf






















    can i get a copy "

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    lumoruk;8024144

    Prefer size 14 to a 10 anyday :thumbsup:



    no disrespect but really? i mean really?

    whatsThePoint;8024167

    He didn't just do it with one person and you don;t know what videos he … He didn't just do it with one person and you don;t know what videos he destroyedMost 13 boys would jump at the chance and he'd bragged to all his mates about itHe was fully aware what he was doingShe appears to have had issues



    I have no idea why you keep bringing that case up, it has nothing to do with this story at all.

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    whatsThePoint;8024167

    He didn't just do it with one person and you don;t know what videos he … He didn't just do it with one person and you don;t know what videos he destroyedMost 13 boys would jump at the chance and he'd bragged to all his mates about itHe was fully aware what he was doingShe appears to have had issues



    I don't know when I was 13 I had trouble letting a 15 yr old girl try and play with my goolies so I ran away :?

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    bykergrove;8024201

    no disrespect but really? i mean really?



    it's so true, can't get enough of that sexy ass and bigger boobs to play with :thumbsup:

    NB: have I over stepped the line? please edit mods by deleting everything but the bold bit cheers.

    lumoruk;8024192

    I quoted the post you were referring to and calling them a troll and … I quoted the post you were referring to and calling them a troll and agreeing to what you said chill 8-)



    Ah right ok, thanks just checking

    You really do have your own way of doing things on this forum that I don't come across on others I'm on. (did initially when I joined have to ask if +1 meant what I thought it meant) LOL

    awoodhall2003;8023438

    "What you did represents a cruel, selfish betrayal of trust."Judge Roger … "What you did represents a cruel, selfish betrayal of trust."Judge Roger ChappleCouldn't agree more, I would not want it done to me. If I was asked then undoubtedly I'll say yes...given I trust them (not to be put on the net!).



    +1

    lumoruk;8024144

    No, I tell her how sexy she is now, 10x as sexy because she is. Prefer … No, I tell her how sexy she is now, 10x as sexy because she is. Prefer size 14 to a 10 anyday :thumbsup:



    Good to hear! I'm with you...i prefer a girl with curves myself, otherwise there is nothing to admire, play with, grab, etc...:thumbsup:
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