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have you called her on phone yet

have you rung the buyer as there may be an innocent explanation?

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bossyboots;8829208

have you called her on phone yet



boothy;8829210

have you rung the buyer as there may be an innocent explanation?



call me dumb now lol
i didnt think i would need it i was the new member she had feedback and seemed nice
it was her doubting me i never thought she would not pay up

chickhappy;8829229

call me dumb now lol i didnt think i would need it i was the new member … call me dumb now lol i didnt think i would need it i was the new member she had feedback and seemed nice it was her doubting me i never thought she would not pay up



only yourself to blame

link to the thread please

which thread is this? you have a few sale threads on the go

chickhappy;8829229

call me dumb now lol i didnt think i would need it i was the new member … call me dumb now lol i didnt think i would need it i was the new member she had feedback and seemed nice it was her doubting me i never thought she would not pay up



rules are there to protect you. ALWAYS get contact details inc landline telephone number

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the mods are already involved, i suggest you leave negative feedback to warn others, assuming you havent already

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barky;8829238

which thread is this? you have a few sale threads on the go



bossyboots;8829243

rules are there to protect you. ALWAYS get contact details inc landline … rules are there to protect you. ALWAYS get contact details inc landline telephone number



hotukdeals.com/ite…-ba

i know myself to blame but i didnt think she had lots of feedback i didnt have any

the buyer has actually said she is leaving for her holiday on Friday - I reckon it will be sorted on her return
hotukdeals.com/ite…t=9

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bossyboots;8829271

the buyer has actually said she is leaving for her holiday on Friday - I … the buyer has actually said she is leaving for her holiday on Friday - I reckon it will be sorted on her returnhttp://www.hotukdeals.com/item/690221/fs-river-island-handbag-stunning-ba/showpost.php?p=8737552&postcount=9


she is back already she said she is back on the friday morning
and even when mod posted i was ment to have payment then
and now its sunday your talking near 2 weeks for payment

And she is using multi id's now ?

waterloo;8829310

And she is using multi id's now ?



Yep off with their heads!:-D


My guess is they spent up on holiday and forgot they still had to pay. Don't worry they will probably get dole/child benefit/some other hand out in the next few days and will pay.

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waterloo;8829310

And she is using multi id's now ?




GAVINLEWISHUKD;8829322

Yep off with their heads!:-DMy guess is they spent up on holiday and … Yep off with their heads!:-DMy guess is they spent up on holiday and forgot they still had to pay. Don't worry they will probably get dole/child benefit/some other hand out in the next few days and will pay.


we can but hope lol its not even the money really its just the principal of it
such a shame she seemed such a nice person i had no reason to doubt her my own fault though i will remember for next time

chickhappy;8829351

we can but hope lol its not even the money really its just the principal … we can but hope lol its not even the money really its just the principal of it such a shame she seemed such a nice person i had no reason to doubt her my own fault though i will remember for next time



she has high feedback and I would contact some of her recent buyers as surely someone got her contact details. worth a try

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bossyboots;8829409

she has high feedback and I would contact some of her recent buyers as … she has high feedback and I would contact some of her recent buyers as surely someone got her contact details. worth a try


yes i could do that good idea thanks x

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The member is under review and we're dealing with the issues.

Always follow the trading advice in full, giving you alternative means of follow up should the member face any restrictions or do a runner. You will already have some details as you sent the item to a confirmed address.

Personally, I'd never send without full payment upfront unless I had adequate means of recovery available.

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aScottishBloke;8829460

The member is under review and we're dealing with the issues.Always … The member is under review and we're dealing with the issues.Always follow the trading advice in full, giving you alternative means of follow up should the member face any restrictions or do a runner. You will already have some details as you sent the item to a confirmed address.Personally, I'd never send without full payment upfront unless I had adequate means of recovery available.


yes i understand that as i say its my own fault just i didnt have feedback and she did
i thought it was a done thing on here thank you all for your input xx

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It's a personal choice to follow the trading advice. Ignore only if you consider it worth the risk.

Hopefully it gets resolved soon to your satisfaction.

OP,

You can use the address details that were given to you, along with his/her name, to obtain their telephone number here:

192.com/

Be aware, if they are ex-directory this will not work though.

I 'think' I have narrowed down her number (i'm going on my phone records of texts sent around the time she replied to one of my fs threads, have dialed the number and its not coming up in my contacts so as I said I 'think' it may be hers) Not sure what the protocol is here but I know I wouldn't want my number bandied about so would a mod advise whether I would give it to you or the op thanks

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michelleleemoo;8830345

I 'think' I have narrowed down her number (i'm going on my phone records … I 'think' I have narrowed down her number (i'm going on my phone records of texts sent around the time she replied to one of my fs threads, have dialed the number and its not coming up in my contacts so as I said I 'think' it may be hers) Not sure what the protocol is here but I know I wouldn't want my number bandied about so would a mod advise whether I would give it to you or the op thanks


i understand that hun i know i would be the same i will wait a couple of days and see if she gets back to me x

michelleleemoo;8830345

I 'think' I have narrowed down her number (i'm going on my phone records … I 'think' I have narrowed down her number (i'm going on my phone records of texts sent around the time she replied to one of my fs threads, have dialed the number and its not coming up in my contacts so as I said I 'think' it may be hers) Not sure what the protocol is here but I know I wouldn't want my number bandied about so would a mod advise whether I would give it to you or the op thanks



you dont give it to anyone :thumbsup:

why havent you left a neg feedback if this person hasnt paid in weeks?

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acecatcher3;8830495

you dont give it to anyone :thumbsup:why havent you left a neg feedback … you dont give it to anyone :thumbsup:why havent you left a neg feedback if this person hasnt paid in weeks?


because i want to give her the benefit of the doubt just in case there is a explanation so am waiting a couple of days if still nothing neg will be left

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chickhappy;8830512

because i want to give her the benefit of the doubt just in case there is … because i want to give her the benefit of the doubt just in case there is a explanation so am waiting a couple of days if still nothing neg will be left



so even after her giving you your money, your not going to neg her, makes feedback worthless, a bit like ebay really, and also hence why people can behave like they do

chickhappy;8830512

because i want to give her the benefit of the doubt just in case there is … because i want to give her the benefit of the doubt just in case there is a explanation so am waiting a couple of days if still nothing neg will be left



lool...right ok then :thumbsup:

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sassie;8830523

so even after her giving you your money, your not going to neg her, makes … so even after her giving you your money, your not going to neg her, makes feedback worthless, a bit like ebay really, and also hence why people can behave like they do


leaving neg now i see your point x

sassie;8830523

so even after her giving you your money, your not going to neg her, makes … so even after her giving you your money, your not going to neg her, makes feedback worthless, a bit like ebay really, and also hence why people can behave like they do



+1
other buyers should be warned... they don't all read these boards so would not know anything about the way she deals.

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chickhappy;8830542

leaving neg now i see your point x



did you not see her neg when you dealt with her, after reading that thread would have put me off dealing, also seems the norm is to wait for a refund before negging, as the previous member did but it hardly warns future buyers in the meantime

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wendy56;8830551

+1other buyers should be warned... they don't all read these boards so … +1other buyers should be warned... they don't all read these boards so would not know anything about the way she deals.


neg now left thanks i didnt think of it like that just trying to see the good in people didnt think i would get done by a member with so many good feedback will get detail in future just hope noone else gets any probs with her

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sassie;8830562

did you not see her neg when you dealt with her, after reading that … did you not see her neg when you dealt with her, after reading that thread would have put me off dealing, also seems the norm is to wait for a refund before negging, as the previous member did but it hardly warns future buyers in the meantime


i saw yes that it was a item not sent i didnt look at the thread it was one of the first thing i sold i saw she had alot of good feedback and the fact she would pay half then other half once recieved i didnt think i would have got done for £6 but as i said i learnt my lesson

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chickhappy;8830608

i saw yes that it was a item not sent i didnt look at the thread it was … i saw yes that it was a item not sent i didnt look at the thread it was one of the first thing i sold i saw she had alot of good feedback and the fact she would pay half then other half once recieved i didnt think i would have got done for £6 but as i said i learnt my lesson



well i think you may get your money back as other person did, but i think you have done the right things, and i doubt she will be trading on here again, and if she is then it is thanks to you that some people will think twice before trading

not all trades go tits up, there are hundreds that go fine

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ok update
i got a pm stating she was banned so she couldnt pay and it said she will pay asap
so if thats the case why not pay today when she messaged me
now im being ignored again

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I agree, I hope that's what you stated to the member.

I'll give this one final attempt, otherwise you may have to pursue independently.

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chickhappy;8845016

ok update i got a pm stating she was banned so she couldnt pay and it … ok update i got a pm stating she was banned so she couldnt pay and it said she will pay asap so if thats the case why not pay today when she messaged me no im being ignored again



she is only banned from the fs boards, wtf has that got to do with paying

chickhappy;8845016

ok update i got a pm stating she was banned so she couldnt pay and it … ok update i got a pm stating she was banned so she couldnt pay and it said she will pay asap so if thats the case why not pay today when she messaged me no im being ignored again



she's not banned and if she was she wouldnt be able to pm you, did she mean suspended perhaps and yes she should have sorted it

chickhappy;8845016

ok update i got a pm stating she was banned so she couldnt pay and it … ok update i got a pm stating she was banned so she couldnt pay and it said she will pay asap so if thats the case why not pay today when she messaged me no im being ignored again



thats total cobblers,she is spinning you a line

she was on this afternoon

Title: Solar Flare
Joined: Oct 2009
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aScottishBloke;8845047

I agree, I hope that's what you stated to the member.I'll give this one … I agree, I hope that's what you stated to the member.I'll give this one final attempt, otherwise you may have to pursue independently.



why cant you pay for it when you was on you had my addy
i find this quite strange
you promised you would pay but still havent you took advantage of a new member
can you pay for the item that i sent you no more excuses please

thats what i put to member its just the principal of it really x

chickhappy;8845095

why cant you pay for it when you was on you had my addy i find this quite … why cant you pay for it when you was on you had my addy i find this quite strange you promised you would pay but still havent you took advantage of a new member can you pay for the item that i sent you no more excuses pleasethats what i put to member its just the principal of it really x





what happened re the telephone number? did u manage to get it from any other member - have u tried any other members

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bossyboots;8845438

what happened re the telephone number? did u manage to get it from any … what happened re the telephone number? did u manage to get it from any other member - have u tried any other members


no joy with number and to be honest she wouldnt say much i expect lol
i just hope she dont do this to anyone else

bossyboots;8829243

rules are there to protect you. ALWAYS get contact details inc landline … rules are there to protect you. ALWAYS get contact details inc landline telephone number



What about if like me you don't have a landline number?

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