

Posted 27th Dec 2021
Hi everyone. I normally buy/sell on gumtree but face to face.
Is it safe for me to send to someone who sounds genuine (ie has a conversation before "can you post" message) if they pay bank transfer in advance?
There was a horrible story on here before about someone reversing payment on paypal "friends and family" as account was hacked... and paypal business is the oldest trick in the book? (item not delivered?)
Hopefully the buyer can get his friends to pick up... but just in case... how easy is it to reverse a bank transfer (or revolut or monzo?)
I have 9 positive feedback on gumtree so should be fine for the buyer to take the risk.
James
Forgot to add - it's a projector for £375... He suggested Hermes. I lolled and suggested DPD
Is it safe for me to send to someone who sounds genuine (ie has a conversation before "can you post" message) if they pay bank transfer in advance?
There was a horrible story on here before about someone reversing payment on paypal "friends and family" as account was hacked... and paypal business is the oldest trick in the book? (item not delivered?)
Hopefully the buyer can get his friends to pick up... but just in case... how easy is it to reverse a bank transfer (or revolut or monzo?)
I have 9 positive feedback on gumtree so should be fine for the buyer to take the risk.
James
Forgot to add - it's a projector for £375... He suggested Hermes. I lolled and suggested DPD
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PP F&F:
source accountholder claims fraudulent use of source funding.
PP F&F payment is reversed to detriment of seller, and seller pays the £14 PP fee to cover the chargeback.
PP F&F summary: seller pays £14 to have their item stolen. (edited)
If the seller claims fraud on their account, the bank might step in.
There is a reason why the fraudsters tell their victims to pay for goods with Amazon credit.
A coveted hope egg topaz pendant which is very rare to find now .
The buyer said that they lived in northern Ireland and they needed it posted and they paid by bank transfer.
As soon as my bank confirmed that the money was in my account I went straight to my local post office and posted the item special delivery on Saturday morning.
On Monday I was on a lunch break and my bank phoned me to say that they had been contacted by my buyer and he told them I sent a empty box.
I had the proof of postage receipt which shows the item weight.
I withdrew the £250 the evening before but the bank said he was asking for a charge back.
I had to send my bank pics of the item and my post office proof of postage receipt.
He was refunded by his bank not mine so I was in the clear.
Three people messaged me on gumtree later that day warning me about him.
He has done this trick a times.
please don’t go through with the bank transfer option
tell them they can have it for £350, if they pick it up, they will say no (edited)
I called them to say thanks. They were lovely. Obviously it was a risk and they could have taken my money and ran. It's a gamble. I believe if you take payment in PayPal and the payment is 'for friends and family' or whatever (non business transaction), there's no way the sender can recover the payment. They're not covered by PayPal buyer protection policy in that circumstance. So if you want to play it safe, I would ask for a method of payment that you know they can't withdraw or dispute afterwards. I'm not so sure I would have been happy to gamble with a sum much higher than £100.
Thanks J. Glad it worked out for you. Alas on paypal friends and family, there was a terrible post on here whereby someone sold via paypal friends and family and got scammed... the 'buyers' claimed their account was hacked. I always thought friends and family was safe... but the recourse from paypal was "you're not friends and family"! I'll see if can find a linky...
this one
hotukdeals.com/dis…110
That's a real shame. I'm not sure of any kind of foolproof method. Scammers like using moneygram because it's non recoverable, but I have no experience using it, and I think it might just be for international payments. Of course, taking cash face to face is probably the safest way. If you don't want to risk it, I would just refuse to mail it and wait for someone else to buy the item with cash. Hate to see anyone scammed out of their hard earned, and gumtree is of course notorious for being rife with scammers
Bet that won't happen, as it is non reversible. Mind you, they might use a stolen card.
Can the buyer attempt to recall the transfer? Like can be done on paypal service/goods payment.
about the charge back (edited)
Face to face transaction with seller never touching the payment.
Payment is made by buyer directly to Post Office teller with seller standing socially-distanced alongside.
Buyer to be made aware of payment-at-PO requirement beforehand as buyer/scammer will then be aware of comfort/dread of other people in vicinity, comfort/dread of CCTV and comfort/dread of PO teller performing fake note check.
Items were priced cheaper to account for the fact the market for potential buyers would not be nationwide.
Surprised how many people were willing to travel further than I would have done to save a few quid.
Next time, I won't be so generous with my pricing.
As others have said, unless you are convinced that the buyer is 100% genuine, you will get payment, they also arrange for pickup and then a few weeks later the payment gets reversed as they somehow managed to make a dodgy payment to you.
"Buyer" (scammer) could either use hacked source account, or state source account was hacked (typically after successful delivery to address unrelated to source account and/or holiday rental address).
Both of those scenarios could result in reversal to detriment of seller.
Of course it is! Cash is King - provided they are real banknotes the only way to get them back is for someone to snatch them from you!