Wife's 50th birthday - weekend's in Europe suggestions please

Posted 10th Jul 2023
Hi everyone

Wife is approaching the big 5 0 (two years after I did) and I suggested we go away for a long weekend in Europe somewhere without the kids.

We haven't gone away much, Brussels and Spain to see her in-laws, so where would people suggest?

We are not people that like to sit in the sun around a pool, but would prefer if it was warm while we explore.

Gatwick is easy for us to get to - budget is £1000 - do most major European cities speak English as a 2nd launguage? We have always got by in Spain as her family speak it - we'd be lost on our own!

I was thinking Amsterdam but as neither of us takes drugs is it worth it, is there more to do there than that?

All comments and ideas and questions welcome :-)
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  1. Buckyball's avatar
    Can recommend Prague, a beautiful city and on the plus side food and drinks are very affordable.
    Dude1971's avatar
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    I had not considered Prague - will have a look - thank you.
  2. smith2001uk's avatar
    Personally for architecture and how beautiful the place is i'd suggest Florence. Sometimes its a lot cheaper to fly into Pisa and get the highly reliable and cheap train (1hr) into the city.
  3. tcf's avatar
    Bruges.

    Although if you haven't been to Venice, you really should. (edited)
    VeganPolice's avatar
    +1 on Bruges.
  4. bozo007's avatar
    Amsterdam is beautiful with the canals, museums, etc. and it is sad that you think it is good only for drugs.

    Just be careful of pickpockets and other scammers who operate in groups. Also not a good idea to carve your wife's name on any old building just because she is celebrating a big birthday. The Italians especially are not in a good mood at the moment.
  5. airbus330's avatar
    Porto, Portugal. Beautiful architecture, walks, food, friendly, warm and English widely spoken.
    If you want to stick to Spain, Valencia, Cordoba or Seville.
  6. SaturdayGigs's avatar
    Malaga city, fuengirola or seville
  7. psychobitchfromhell's avatar
    Krakow is lovely, as is Barcelona and Budapest.
    notcrack's avatar
    Yeah, Krakow is a great destination. Cheap, good food and everywhere is walkable. Drinking in the center square at night is truly magical.
  8. TGKW's avatar
    Some suggestions I would put out there are: -

    Gdansk
    Reykjavik
    Amsterdam
    Vienna
    Krakow
    Gent
    Geneva
    Zurich

    In that order. Loved all of them, but taking into consideration safety, convenience, prices and things to do.

    Be polite, and take a phrase book with you, and you will be astounded at the amount of people who speak English as a second language, it really does put us to shame, but always learn the native language for please and thank you.

    My wife and I are similar ages to you, and have spent at least 4 days at each of the above. I didn't add Spain or Portugal to the list as I found in the summer months for them to be incredibly busy. I didn't add France because....they are French , never had a good experience there other than Bayeux or Dunkirk.

    We haven't been to Rome as it was so expensive the last time we looked.

    Prague and Budapest are next on the list for us.
  9. Dude1971's avatar
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    Thank you all for the advice - finances permitting, we will be going to Venice in September!

    Prague is on our short-list for the next trip, I am intrigued by Copenhagen so maybe we'll do that for my birthday!

    Gregg Wallace has a travel series on Five that includes Venice and Amsterdam, will give that a look as maybe my recollection of the latter is muddied by alcohol during the stag do I went on!
    Jessica321's avatar
    If you have enough time Trieste is very nice and not too far from Venice.
    I went there last month for a short day trip while I was stopping in Slovenia
  10. Muig1972's avatar
    In terms of historical sights, you can't go far wrong with Rome, although it will be extremely busy with tourists.

    I wouldn't worry about language in Europe: everywhere is set up to cater to English-speaking tourists. Just learn a few phrases to be polite such as "Hello", "Thanks", "Do you speak English?" and "Sorry, I don't speak (Italian, German etc)". At worst you can just point at stuff you want- after all, they want your money!
  11. 001Cisco's avatar
    Venice?
    Athens?
    Dude1971's avatar
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    Have you been to either and would recommend?

    I'd heard Venice was smelly around the end of Auguest!
  12. Isaac_McCafferty's avatar
    Hello!

    Somewhere i'd really suggest is Copenhagen! lovely flat city, all speak English and plenty to do (go often for work so can give more details later if you wanted)

    One thing they have there which is a must for her birthday would be Wallmans Dinnerparty, this is a 3 meal set menu with shows going on around you.
    Dude1971's avatar
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    Copenhagen was also not somewhere I had considered! Tell me more about the Dinnerparty please :-)
  13. aLV426's avatar
    I'll throw in Ireland - as you can always reach it by ferry - good to know, especially when 1700 flights have been cancelled this month!
    As for the Amsterdam comments - I don't think the tourist board would agree with you:
    tripadvisor.co.uk/Att…tml
  14. guilbert53's avatar
    Before booking a summer break from Gatwick see the news from Eastjet today

    Not a time to be flying from Gatwick

    bbc.co.uk/new…416
  15. Whammerhead's avatar
    Dubrovnik.
  16. Xippi's avatar
    Good advice given above. Been to all and agree. Personally think Ghent is nicer than Bruges but anyone of them would be great for you. Look at things a different way as well by seeing which flight times are most convenient and how easy it is to get to your chosen resort from the airport. You'll want to max your time there. Try and do a walking tour as soon as you can to orientate yourself. My tip would be Malaga City centre as it's got the lot -safe, cool city vibe, bars, awsome market,tapas, restaurants, history, roman ruins, hamams, parks, museums, beach, seaside promenade and lovely walks. Airport to city 30min by bus /20min by train £2. £20 by uber/taxi
    Xippi's avatar
    Just seen your comment about Amsterdam. Way off. Lovely city packed with great things to do. Dutch speak better English than most English. Don't believe everything you read in the Daily Mail.
  17. sustar's avatar
    I have enjoyed visits to these locations for short breaks:

    Amsterdam, Rome, Turin, Prague, Dublin and Belfast 
  18. Jessica321's avatar
    Another vote here for Rome, plenty to see and do

    I also like Vienna
  19. Dude1971's avatar
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    If nothing else this thread has given me lots of great ideas for after I come back from this trip!

    Will hunt for best deals off my short-list and let you know what I choose.

    Thank you for all your advice, really appreciate it :-)
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