Is it unethical to give negative feedback to someone on ebay if you do get your order?

Posted 17th Apr 2023
Thos guy on ebay has taken the mick, late dispatch with a terrible excuse. However he did makeup for it by giving me an extra product in the package but I’m still not satisfied. He has 100% positive feedback and I have the power to end his career.

Do I teach him a lesson?
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  1. Donor's avatar
    Donor
    Please post your eBay user ID so that I and others here can block you.
    Jim1_Smith's avatar
    Jim1_Smith
    Try with their username from here
  2. Covert.Recon's avatar
    Covert.Recon
    I've pre-empted ever dealing with you by adding lil6ix to my Ebay block list and the system accepted that username.
    Jim1_Smith's avatar
    Jim1_Smith
    I think that member may well end up being blacklisted my most people reading this thread!
  3. Ferris's avatar
    Ferris
    "I had a nice little business going but the moment I hit 99.89% positive the orders stopped, my partner left me and I now live on the street. "
  4. sm9690's avatar
    sm9690
    I have the power to end his career.

    You sound like a child
    Lil6ix's avatar
    Lil6ix Author
    Thank you I’ve been feeling down about getting older lately, cheered me right up.
  5. dan_uk's avatar
    dan_uk
    Ultimately they can respond to your feedback and, if a seller had only ever received one bad feedback, I’d be more inclined to think you were the one with the issue not the seller. 

    The seller can also dispute the feedback and if they are in good standing with eBay then there’s every chance it’ll be removed. I’ve had three feedback removed from eBay all from spurious moans about people being either entirely unreasonable about postage time (bought on a Sunday, delivered on a Wednesday) or two people trying to con me out of a product. 

    You’ve been adequately compensated, the seller sounds like they’re genuinely sorry and yet you want to punish them further by leaving a smart ar*e feedback. Maybe have a think and consider if you’re the problem not them. 
  6. bobdylan's avatar
    bobdylan
    No, grow up, move on
  7. Oldnfaded's avatar
    Oldnfaded
    It'll be tears before bedtime when your Mum finds out you've been using her account
  8. Azwipe's avatar
    Azwipe
    Thought the schools had gone back this week ?
  9. Whoohoo's avatar
    Whoohoo
    The power to end his career sure

    How late is late dispatch and what is this so called terrible excuse
  10. davejb's avatar
    davejb
    thats what neutral feedback is for. "item was as described but slow dispatch. seller gave extra item as compensation" something to that effect.. but depends how late it was and what timeframe they promised it in... whether they had a good reason for the late dispatch etc. if it was weeks late and youre genuinely upset then say so. especially if you had to continously chase them up to get the order sent. if it was only a few days then maybe dont be so harsh. its hard to judge without the whole story..
  11. GlitchFace's avatar
    GlitchFace
    You sound like a customer nobody wants or needs. You got what you paid for, give the bloke a break ffs
  12. Ferris's avatar
    Ferris
    I've had exactly two negative feedbacks in 15 years of selling. Neither ended my career, and both were removed. Believe it or not, you are not the great and mighty kingmaker you think you are.
  13. Magda2's avatar
    Magda2
    He may have had a genuine good reason for the late dispatch,e.g illness etc. He did give you an extra item as compensation so what more do you want?
    Lil6ix's avatar
    Lil6ix Author
    His reason was he forgot and has had so many orders lately (edited)
  14. boonspoon's avatar
    boonspoon
    OP be like....

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  15. rowlystravel's avatar
    rowlystravel
    I ran this through google translate and it came back with "if i order something and then actually receive it is there really a problem"
  16. kizzzle's avatar
    kizzzle
    if you are "still no satisfied" - send it back along with the extra thing you got and buy it from someone else. simple
  17. bozo007's avatar
    bozo007
    Yes, to the question in the title.
  18. newbie68's avatar
    newbie68
    This has to be a troll post - no one thinks like this...do they? If it's real I hope you've had a bad day and this is not your normal approach to people
    Deen_Gray's avatar
    Deen_Gray
    It is normal for him
  19. AnkerMan's avatar
    AnkerMan
    Crush your enemies. Have them fall at your feet and take their horses and hear the lamentation of their women. That is best in life!
  20. PS5's avatar
    PS5
    Perhaps you could leave feedback on your thread requests like this from last week that you posted but didn't respond to. Or do you have a better excuse

    hotukdeals.com/dis…358
    Lil6ix's avatar
    Lil6ix Author
    What is there to respond to? No questions were asked just information given.

    🤡 (edited)
  21. EndlessWaves's avatar
    EndlessWaves
    Was it actually late according to ebay's terms and requirements or was it within the range that was given when you bought it but just took longer than you'd have preferred?
  22. IAmATeaf's avatar
    IAmATeaf
    Jesus, even eBay seller have a life which may involve family and friends!

    It does depend on how late is late but the fact that they acknowledged the lateness and tried to compensate tells me that the seller is not a bad-un.

    Re ending their career, doubt a single neg will have the impact that you think it will have.
    Lil6ix's avatar
    Lil6ix Author
    You know what you have talked me out of it. You’re right maybe I am being abit harsh.
  23. ifixit's avatar
    ifixit
    Normally leave negative for scammers or sellers that disappear. Neutral for unsatisfied service. Positive for anything else.
  24. rimz790's avatar
    rimz790
    Just give him the benefit of the doubt, hes compensated by giving an extra product which other ebayers in a similar position wouldn't do. Usually I look at the sellers recent feedbacks and then decide to buy or not.

    If the item you ordered was needed by a specific date say a birthday/anniversary date and it got delivered after the date/s then you may have a case. But if in his feedbacks others have said the say thing that the seller delivered late in some cases, then yeah he deserves it.
  25. TheUrbis's avatar
    TheUrbis
    I tend to look at what kind of feedback people leave for others when deciding whether or not to accept a best offer...

    If you're one of the people that leaves constant negatives etc, then you'd end up on my block list.
  26. duplextrousers's avatar
    duplextrousers
    beautiful piece of trolling
  27. Mr.Plow's avatar
    Mr.Plow
    What item did you buy and what was the free gift, I'm nosey like that.
  28. Sc4mp0's avatar
    Sc4mp0
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  29. Gollywood's avatar
    Gollywood
    Will leaving negative feedback change your life situation at all? (edited)
  30. t3r4's avatar
    t3r4
    Negative feedback is for sellers who lie, sell fake items, deliberately cancel orders due to the bids not getting high enough, or sell not as described items AND don't take steps to resolve.

    Even if you don't get the item, you shouldn't just give negative if given a reasonable explanation, eg courier lost it...
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